Madre Nicaragüense

May 30th marks Mother's Day in Nicaragua and I wanted to take time to acknowledge these strong women who have endured so much.  The Nicaraguan mother is built with a tough fiber.  They are fierce protectors of their families and hard workers.  I sometimes think they possess magic powers based on what I've witnessed from my mom.  They use their gifts in service to their family and community.  Whatever their story, they are all amazing women.  Today I honor my mother, my grandmother, all my aunts and cousins, beautiful ladies of immeasurable strength and perseverance.

As I've been doing my research on the Nicaraguan revolution, I am continually reminded of my grandmother.  I can't help but wonder about the burden upon her shoulders.  The mother of twelve children, she worried for the safety of them all, whether they were fighting in uprising, looking for refuge in the mountains, or even far away in distant countries.  It was a heavy weight to carry and a testament to her fortitude.

In the "Pictures from a Revolution" documentary, Susan Meiselas talks with some mothers.  Many of these women lost at least one child during the war.  One woman spoke angrily with regret.  She felt her son died in vain. Another one spoke of the shock and disbelief.  One woman explained how her work blossomed as a distraction to numb the pain.  I found it interesting how for the sake of peace and healing, forgiveness found its form.  They could understand that the mothers of the Contras were mothers like them, mothers who mourn the loss of their children.  They could bond in their shared suffering.  Through the capability of finding empathy across rival sides, the substance and character of these women shines boldly.  

Mothers give us life and nurture life.  In all their various efforts, their work is fruitful and life-giving.  Sadly, on this Nicaraguan Mother's Day, my thoughts also fall onto the dark clouds of death.  Four years ago today, my Tía Alba was buried after losing her fight to cancer.  My cousin Yocasta observed Mother's day with a funeral.  Both of my grandmothers have passed so I am reserved to hold on to their memory.  As I recall my Abuelita Dora Hidalgo de Gonzalez, I think of the trials she faced having to let go of her children, especially the loss of my Tía Nordia.

The following song by Nicaraguan musician, Carlos Mejía Godoy, really struck me personally because it echoes the pain of my aunt and grandmother.  It's asking where is the tomb of the guerilla-fighter?  The mother is asking and no one responds.  My aunt was killed and bull-dozed in a hill with over 30 other youths.  Their parents had to dig through the dirt to recover limbs.  Only the head and a leg were found from Nordia.  My grandmother was in denial.  She refused to accept that Nordia had been killed. She thought they couldn't properly identify the remains.  Nordia was still coming.  She was hiding, she was lost, she was far away, but she was still coming home.  And she waited.  I don't know how long it took her to accept that Nordia wouldn't come back, if she ever did.  I don't know if she waited for her until her dying day.  I do know that they are together again now.  They have both come home.

I leave you with this song in honor of all mothers who have lost a child, especially the ones who dwell in the mystery of not knowing where their children lie.  May they find strength and peace.

La Tumba del Guerrillero
by Carlos Mejía Godoy

La tumba del guerrillero
dónde, dónde, dónde está
su madre está preguntando
nadie le responderá
la tumba del guerrillero
dónde, dónde, dónde está
el pueblo está preguntando
algún día lo sabrá.

Guerrillero, vos surgis en ríos
montes y praderas
en el viento que mece el chinchorro
del hijo del Juan
en las manos humildes y toscas
de la vivandera
en la Milpa donde el campesino
busca y busca el pan.
Como dijo el poeta trapense
de Solentiname
no quisieron decirnos el sitio
donde te encontrás
y por eso tu tumba es todito
nuestro territorio
en cada palmo de mi Nicaragua
ahí vos estás. 

Guerrillero, vos nacés de nuevo
en la carabina
en los bronquios de Pedro el minero
que en Siuna murió
en los ojos de los miserables que en Acahualinca
aún espera sedientos
la aurora de la rendición.
Como dijo el poeta trapense
de Solentiname
no quisieron decirnos el sitio
donde te encontrás
y por eso tu tumba es todito
nuestro territorio
en cada palmo de mi Nicaragua
ahí vos estás.

Woman on a Mission

When I was a student at LMU I learned about the film, The Mission, directed by Roland Joffe.  Recently, I heard the music of "Gabriel's Oboe" and it reminded me of the movie. I found it online, ordered it and watched it again.  There is a special feature documentary about working with the indigenous people during filming.  At one point they talk to a local Jesuit who was facing his own modern day challenges.  He referenced being in Central America and in particular Nicaragua. I sat upright at the sound of the name.  I knew this movie was similar in nature to the story I am searching for but I didn't expect such a direct link.  It was an in-your-face reminder of what my mission is. I'm glad I'm finding these little things around me to keep me on course.  It is definitely an affirmation and I embrace it.

Feeling Nica

Felt very in the Nica spirit with the new blog entry.  Wore my Flor de Cana shirt & made Chanco con yuca. Getting better at making Nicaraguan food. :(

Contra-flicted

I've been conflicted about a few things as I make this journey to learn more about my aunt.  A simpler problem has been just figuring out what is the narrative focus of this blog.  Is it more to track my experience doing research or is it to actually share the content of what I'm learning?  The goal was basically to keep me accountable to this project but the direction to take it was undefined.  A few months ago I wrote about watching the documentary, "Pictures from a Revolution," by Susan Meiselas and the excitement that erupted from finally breaking in my notebook.  It was well-received but my mother asked about the actual video.  She wanted to read about what I was actually discovering.  So in the following entry I decided to break down and review my notes.  It was a bit more challenging than expected.  Some things I jotted down were emotional responses, memories of my personal visits to Nicaragua, words and phrases that caught my attention and striking imagery.  I'm not just seeking facts and details for an informational report, but considering all the elements that would provide more character and nuance if I were to attempt to write a novel or even a screenplay.  Deciphering which scribbles are worthy of blogging is part of the mystery of this game.  Actually writing the new entry was a bit of a chore as well because it almost felt too scholarly.  I didn't feel like writing a book report.  I was out of practice from reviewing notes, analyzing them and writing up an insightful discourse.  My school days are far behind me and I didn't want to taint this blog with the blandness of academic essays.  However, this overall problem does not deeply concern me and I am confident that with time I will find my proper voice.

An another issue that has popped up and seems to haunt me revolves around the Contras.  To grossly over-simplify things, you can look at the Nicaragua revolution in two parts: first with the uprising and over-throwing of the Dictator Somoza and secondly with the counter-revolt fighting for control over the newly freed country.  The first half seems pretty straightforward: get rid of the bad guy oppressing the people.  The second half is incredibly more complicated and laced with political tension.  I just wanted to avoid the second war altogether.  Nordia's story doesn't lead to that time.  Nordia died before the first revolution had ended.  Unfortunately, I am learning time and time again that I can't view history in a narrow lens to suit my fancy.  I can't pick and choose what parts are more "interesting or entertaining" if we are even allowed to describe these difficult times with such terms.

Since Meiselas's documentary returns her to Nicaragua ten years after the initial uprising, she is able to get some of that disenchanted counter-perspective.  According to one woman,

"Many  mothers of those who died regret the deaths of their children.  They fought so much -to die- and for nothing.  For a Nicaragua without a real triumph, a Nicaragua exhausted-that's what we have now."

Is that how my grandmother felt about the loss of her youngest daughter?  I know she denied the Sandinistas a photo of Nordia to use for the memorial of those who died on Hill 110.  Did she resent what the war did to her family?  Susan goes on to note the growing distance between those running things and those who fought.  One person, however, was torn and disturbed about the current disappointment.  He felt that the price of revolution, the blood, suffering and pain, was to great to betray it.  He explained,"The revolution did not fail us.  The revolution didn't fulfill all of its promises." He said the revolution was clipped of its wings and not able to grow.  Susan spoke with various people who were upset with their current situation.  Some felt they were naively hopeful for better while others knew the poverty would remain constant but thought the freedom was enough of a difference to matter.  It was really interesting to hear the different view points.

What I was most surprised to witness was the authentic emotion from former national guard members.  To me, they were the enemy, pure evil.  But as Susan interviews them they become human again.  I was shocked that I could even be capable of sympathizing with someone from the guardia.  A saw a man in tears about losing the war, honestly believing he was fighting on the right side.  He broke down expressing,

"We were used just as the Sandinistas were used.  We were caught in a war game between the powers. The Russians supplied the Sandinistas.  The United States supported us.  And they started to play with us in a way which was, after a point, dishonest...you become nothing more than a puppet."

A puppet.  A puppet in a very sad play where outside nations pulled the strings.  The Nicaragua people fought for themselves, not any political ideology.  Unfortunately there were too many powers invested with the outcome of this country.  Everyone wanted to claim Nicaragua as their own pawn on the global chessboard.

And so I must accept that the story of the past is not so black-and-white but thick with gray.  I have to be careful how I present some things because of how it will unfold later.  I remember one of my uncles mentioned that something I wrote before felt wrong or ignorant.  It was too ideal whereas he knew the dark reality.  Another time a different uncle said something about my sister being innocent with optimism.  It was almost as if we were falling into the trap of romanticizing history and heroizing the flawed.  I know they might be burdened by the haunting past of their experience which influences their perception, yet it was worth taking note.  Watching the documentary reaffirming this lasting bitterness.  They even went as far to mention that this wasn't a war like "the American movies where the hero walks in."  There aren't clear good guys and bad guys and history should not be depicted as a feel-good action flick.

Normally we are told we must understand the past to better approach the future.  In the case of studying the Sandinista uprising and uncovering Nordia's story, I'm going to have to come to grips with the future to authentically portray the past.